Are you taking accountability for what you have done? To yourself? To others?
This is a very touchy subject for me as I feel that people in my life have not taken accountability.
Accountability for being awful people, for being selfish, for being irresponsible and reckless.
Accountability is about accepting the fact that your actions towards others and even towards yourself have lead you to the situation that you are now living . It's easy to blame others and say it was their fault but what about you ?
One of the hardest things I had to do is taking accountability for my behavior in relationships.
And when I say relationships, I mean from friendships, to sisterhoods, to marriage, to working with colleagues etc.......
It's hard to face yourself and know that I am absolutely responsible for these actions that led to these reactions..... But we can only learn from them and do better.
The outcome for me has been astonishing ..... what a beautiful butterfly i now am ....... ( lol).....
I am blessed to not only have taken accountability for my actions in relationships but also it is freeing to know that the other person's choice had nothing to do with me. It only speaks to their character as a human being.
Listen to me: “You are enough and more” …... but others just don't recognize that and just don't know better. People show accountability in their actions....... not in their words. Words are so easy to speak …are they backed up with actions? ( Speaking to someone out there.... LOL)
Receive this : When someone shows you who they are, believe them.......... accept them and do you ......
I can only wish for myself and also for you that you can take accountability everyday for the positive and negative that happens and find your way to better days. Stay focus on you …...
Keep doing you, nurture your karmic patterns ….... Stay on the steady road.
I am so happy, I am so free, I am so blessed, I am so grateful, and so open to these amazing things waiting to happen in my life. I owe all to God, honestly without him, I would be no where, I would have lost my mind but he was there as my rock. Most of all know that in the breakdowns there are breakthroughs ....... No doubt ....... I am proof of that :-)
As I continue my journey...... I wish that your journey also goes smoothly........... Breath and know that you can do it.
Sending you lots of great vibes.
May your Faith be bigger than your fears ........